There’s eye contact, flirting, bread crumbing, Whodini pop ups out of no where, the hope of new love and finding “the one”… and then there’s being chased, coveted, adored, cherished and respected. When a woman’s doesn’t know that she’s the prize or she isn’t aware of the old adage that the “sperm will always chase the egg”, a woman can become obsessive, desperate, and downright addicted at the thought of the chase and the conquer; especially when a man is making you compete for his attention and is playing hard to get.


If there’s one thing that I’ve learned about living The Hypergamous Life and having feminine ambition is this: that as a feminine woman, you will always get out of your womanhood exactly what you put in. And the more that you put in on your feminine journey: by reading, studying, dating, applying, practicing, having feminine tunnel vision and learning from your mistakes; the more you’ll get out. This is the non-negotiable winning mindset to have.

And although modern women have been wonderfully set up to have their complete independence, have modern women…particularly black women, been set up to fail in…


Tired of waiting to be chosen? Tired of being thirsty over that one Dusty? Tired of siting on the sidelines waiting for a miracle of a man to show up? Tired of living in the frustration of the Desperation Zone? Want to exactly know how to become a winner in the Marketplace of love?

Two words: Roster Dating.

Roster Dating or Rotational Dating, in a nutshell, is the feminine art of openly dating more than one person at the same time and is a very effective feminine lifestyle strategy that not only can be used to increase a feminine woman’s…


So what determines a woman who is follow worthy? For The Hypergamous Life, narrowing down our Insta feminine favorites proved to be hella difficult task because there were way too many editorial choices to choose from with too little time! But to narrow it down, I wanted to feature a group of shero women who have inspired, invigorated and influenced every step and every corner of my feminine life with their creativity, their beauty, their travels, their radiance, and their commitment to wellness due to their boatloads of confidence, class, good taste, immense talent, passion, hunger, inner beauty, radiant glow…


So It’s Valentine’s Day Weekend, you have no Pandemic Plans and you need a feminine pick-me up of last minute ideas that don’t involve sulking, feeling AGGY, or CRAGGY, doom scrolling on Instagram, binge eating an entire chocolate cake, giving Michael B. Jordan and Lori Harvey or Ciara and Russell the Evil Eye, downing an entire bottle of wine by your lonesome or feeling downright sorry for yourself. So without Further Ado:

  1. Love on Your Family. Give out lots of sweet hugs and kisses on this day to your children, your Momma, your Daddy, your man, your extended family or…

A common question that I get asked often by both single and divorced mothers is on how to manage being both feminine and hypergamous while being both Mom and Dad and the simplest answer to what can often be a loaded and complicated question is to have an open heart, an open mindset and to have an iron clad plan of action!

In many ways your feminine and hyperamous journey is not that very different from any other woman: You must do the investment work of nixing your Masculina and your Sapphire habits, you must feminize yourself on both the…


We now have 365 fresh new opportunities to shine in our womanhood and there is no better time than now to hit the refresh, recalibrate, and the reset button! In 2020, I already discussed the 10 Hypergamous Commandments to live by, but before Hypergamy there is the necessary foundation of mastering The Feminine Principle and the Ten Feminine Commandments are just that: 10 stronghold and lifelong womanly principles that a feminine woman can use to throw away her dominant masculinity for good! Living a life of love, romance, abundance, happiness, joy and completeness in your womanhood is your for the…


2020 will forever be remembered as one of the most challenging years on record but the feminine time has finally arrived to where we can begin to put yesterday’s memories into our rear view mirror! So here is an Hypergamous Life Year End Review for those of you who need the gift of a guideline, a tune up and a feminine refresher for 2021. Stick to these Hypergamous guidelines forever and always remember to keep your Hypergamous Foot on the Gas Peddle for Consistent and Continued Hypergamous Success with yourself and High Value Men! And of course….Happy 2021!:

  1. “Thou Shall…

Chloe

My Name is Chloe and I teach women how to be the feminine. Find me on Youtube and Subscribe to Change Your Life!

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